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98 % log apni pori potencial ke sath nhi jee rahi hai , becuase duruso ki batoo ka belive karna or apne app ko manage nhi kar pate , jo unhe chayie , ya unko kushi deta hai us per wah nhi sochte , teh sab chiz apko undrperform karne per marjboor karti hai , sirf samaj ke standard ke liye nhi , balki apke khud ke meshoos karne ke tarikko ke liye  agar app un chezzo ko samjhe kar overcome kar lete hai , jo askar logo ki lioye muskiil hota hai , toh app apni capabilites tak pauch sakte hai .

chalyie suru karte hai une chiz ko sudhere ki zoh tume 98 % logo me rakte hai . 

1. Get Your Life in Order

• Clean Up Your Environment: "Aapka aaspaas ka environment clean aur organized hona bohot zaroori hai. Yeh sirf productivity badhata hi nahi, balki stress bhi kam karta hai."
• Fix Your Relationships: "Toxic relationships ko thoda theek karo ya unse dur raho. Yeh aapke stress ko kam karega aur aapki performance improve karega."

2. Embrace Contrarian Thinking (diffrent thinking of people)

Socho Aman naam ka ek ladka hai jo invest karna chahta hai. Uske saare dosto ne suna hai ki stock market risky hai, aur sab bolte hain, "Aman, paisa safe jagah rakho. Fixed deposit ya savings account mein hi invest karo."

Lekin Aman sochta hai ki agar har koi ek hi tarah soch raha hai, toh shayad usmein kuch value miss ho rahi hai. Usne thoda research karne ka decide kiya. Usne dekha ki kaafi logon ne stock market mein disciplined aur long-term investment se kaafi wealth create ki hai. Aise mein Aman ka decision thoda contrarian ban gaya, kyunki woh apne doston ke opinion ke against jaa raha tha.

Aman ne apni research aur financial goals ke basis par long-term investment karne ka plan banaya, jabki baaki log short-term safe options mein stick kar rahe the. Kuch saalon baad uske investments ka value significantly grow hua, aur woh financially secure ho gaya. Uske doston ne dekha ki jo Aman ne us waqt contrarian thinking se invest kiya tha, usse uska financial growth zyada hua.

Is example se Aman ko yeh realise hua ki kabhi-kabhi contrarian thinking yani 'alag soch' apne fayde mein ho sakti hai, bas aapko research aur confidence ke saath decision lena hota hai.

• Find Dismissed Truths: "Jin cheezon ko log ignore karte hain, unmein apna fayda dhoondho. Yahi soch aapko alag banati hai."
• Form Your Own Opinions: "Contrarian banne ka matlab yeh hai ki aap apna opinion banayein, woh bhi logical base pe."

3. Take Action and Self-Management

• Do It Now: "Abhi karo! Procrastination se nikalne ka yehi tareeka hai ki aap ekdum se start karo."
• Treat Yourself Like a Manager: "Aap apne best manager bano, apne work ko analyze karo aur improve karte jao."

4. Skill Development and Specialization

Master Compound Skills ka matlab hai aise skills par mastery hasil karna jo time ke saath aur valuable bante hain aur aapko consistently growth aur success dilate hain. Yeh woh skills hote hain jo ek baar seekhne se khatam nahi hote, balki practice aur time ke saath aur bhi improve hote hain, jaise ki communication, coding, investing, aur problem-solving.

Example ke liye, sochiye aap communication skills improve kar rahe hain. Shuruaat mein ho sakta hai ki aap sirf basics seekhen, jaise clear bolna aur ideas express karna. Lekin jaise-jaise aap is skill par kaam karte hain, aap aur effective communicator bante hain, aapki persuasion power badhti hai, aur aap better opportunities attract karne lagte hain. Is tarah yeh skill compound hoti hai aur aapke career aur personal life mein long-term mein positive impact laati hai

• Master Compound Skills: "Kuch skills ko mastery level tak le jao jo time ke saath compound hoti hain."
• Specialize with 11,000 Hours: "Ek field mein expert banne ke liye 11,000 ghante lagate hain. Yeh dedication zaroori hai!"

5. Networking and Communication

• Become a Question Master: "Acha networker banne ke liye, questions puchhna seekho. Yeh logon se connect hone ka best tareeka hai."
• Master Storytelling: "Kahani sunana aana chahiye, kyunki ideas ko effectively convey karna zaroori hai."

6. Set Ambitious Goals

• Set an Impossible Goal: "Ek aisa goal rakho jo sunne mein impossible lage, aur usse duniya ko batao, taaki aapka drive constant rahe."
• Align Priorities with Actions: "Apne actions aur priorities ko align rakho. Yahi focus aur direction dega."

7. Positive Mindset and Self-Reflection

• Downplay Negativity: "Negative cheezon ko kam karo aur positive cheezon par focus badhao, clarity aayegi."
• Consistent Reflection: "Har waqt check karo ki kya aapke priorities aur actions aligned hain."

8. Healthy Competition

Healthy Competition ka matlab hai apne aap ko improve karne ke liye doosron ke saath compete karna, lekin bina kisi negative feeling ke. Yeh ek aise competition ko refer karta hai jisme aap apne goals aur skills ko enhance karne ke liye inspire hote hain, aur dusre logon ko apne role model ki tarah dekhte hain, na ki dushman ki tarah.

Example ke liye, maan lo Riya aur Anjali ek hi office mein kaam karte hain aur dono ko promotion chahiye. Riya Anjali ki mehnat aur dedication dekhkar impress hoti hai aur usse motivate hoti hai ki woh bhi apne skills improve kare, bina uske success se jealous hue. Dono apne kaam mein best perform karte hain aur apne aapko ek dusre se better banane ki healthy competition maintain karte hain.

Is tarah ki competition se aap motivate hote hain bina negative emotions ke, aur aap apne aap ko har din behtar banane ki koshish karte hain.

• Pick a Hero: "Apne aap ke liye ek hero choose karo aur unse motivate ho kar apne goals pursue karo."
• Healthy Selfishness: "Thodi si selfishness kabhi kabhi zaroori hoti hai."